Counselor's Corner

Mark Koenig

mark.koenig@southwestschools.org

Being a Good Sport 

“It’s not whether you win or lose.  It’s how you play the game.”  Does your child understand the meaning behind this well known saying?  Being a good sport is important in games and in life.  Here are three ways you can teach sportsmanship to your child.

 Keeping Cool.  When your child loses a game or makes a mistake, try not to overreact.  Let her know that trying her best is more important than winning or losing.  But don’t give her pointers right away.  Wait a day or two before offering tips for improvement. 

 Avoid Criticism.  If you compare your youngster to his teammates, he may feel jealous or incapable.  Instead of making a comparison, try sticking to compliments.  Example: “That player kicked a super field goal.”  Instead of, “Why can’t you kick a field goal like he did?” 

Playing with Grace.  Whether you win or lose a game, your youngster will watch your reaction.  Avoid bragging or putting yourself down.  And remember to congratulate the winner.  Modeling sportsmanship is one of the best ways to teach it.